Dating Kyle

Forward

I never thought I’d try a doc like this, but it turned out to be a fantastic idea.

A bunch of great humans reached out and I’m now in a stable monogamous relationship

This means I’m open to friends, and many subsets of The Relationship Smorgasbord, but not anything romantic or sexual unless you + both my partner & I were in 100% support.

It was spooky to put a doc out there for the world but I highly recommend it. The quality of dating was so much higher than apps.

This doc was shared from my personal notion via the publish to website feature.

I have my original date me doc listed below in case others want to try this, as it became one of the most high value on-a-whim decisions I’ve made in my life.

Hey! I’m Kyle!

I love sharing intimate experiences in this weird life thing we’ve found ourselves in!

I’d love to date more without swiping or as many guessing games, and to be transparent & true to who I am to save us both energy & time

So here’s an estimate of “me” & what I’m looking for in a partner.

If interested in dating please say hi @ kylemorriscs@gmail.com!

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This is me!

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This is also me!

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Woops! that’s Naruto Uzumaki from hit anime series: Naruto

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Oh, that’s me again!

Here’s the gist

  • I’m 27, a guy, straight (-enough), in SF, from Canada 🇨🇦! 5 ft 11 (6ft on tinder)
  • Career: studied math/cs, robots 🤖 at Carnegie Mellon, AI at Cruise, Business at Harvard 🎓, dropped out to join a circus & run a company banana.dev 🍌, now living at/helping run AGIHouse and throwing hackathons
  • Looking for women, open to trans / nonbinary in some cases
  • I’d love to find a life-long soul mate ❤️
  • Also open to short/mid term casual dating, cuddling, hooks ups, stable relationships, & obscure adventures
  • Ideal is being in-person San Francisco/NorCal & open to travel. I travel lots but can see California being a home base.
  • Open to kids, not planning on it in next 4 years
  • Did poly & open to it but i lean to wanting monogamous & stable
  • I’m ENT-J, kink friendly, agnostic, a smidge of anarchism
  • Have dated for 10 yrs, many casual dates, a few 1-3mo relationships, a couple long-term serious monogamous relationships.

Here’s the not-gist

✅ What others love about me

I’ve become quite emotionally aware, introspective, cooperative, open minded
  • I’m playful, silly, funny, satirical, witty
I started with little, but now have an authentic self esteem, health, wealth, and inspiring life
Spongebob still makes me laugh unironically
  • I don’t drink alcohol or smoke, or gamble, or act violent, but I love adventure & having a fun time
  • I’m transparent & loyal, my partners trust me
I care a lot about supporting my partner in their life & goals
  • I’ve watched 100s of baby harp seal vids on Youtube, was one of the 1st subscribers to the baby harp seal channel.
  • I’m pretty fit: I exercise ~2 hours per day at circus center SF, I love getting involved in any sports you may like!
I’m a pretty confident manly man but also have a sensitive / emotional side

🟥 Stuff I’m working on that creates tension in relationships

I have a scattered mind
Sometimes I’m a bit dense
I have a sporadic schedule as an entrepreneur
The amount that I love capitalism & eating meat
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Who I’m looking for

The typical things apply, trust, honesty, fun, etc, who doesn’t want these? Here are specifics

must-haves

Nonviolence
Cooperative & secure attachment
You can listen to feelings without criticizing, mocking, or invalidating them
Physical, mental, emotional health

Nice to haves: these aren’t all required, they are just typically things I fall in love with in a person

playfulness, silliness
sensing, feeling, mindful, sometimes spiritual
intellectual stimulation
Likes to travel
physical health/movement
open mindedness
being weird
overcoming struggles
high agency

What kind of relationship am I looking for?

I can see this playing out in a few scenarios, choose your adventure!

Casual/Exploratory: Cuddling, nonsexual intimacy, deep plutonic conversations, other subsets of relationship anarchy
Life-long soul mate (even forever. contingent on singularity or afterlife being a thing)

Contact

If interested in dating please say hi @ kylemorriscs@gmail.com!

Tent setup while hosting a 26 hour x 26 mile marathon x hackathon.  Yeah it’s what it sounds like!
Tent setup while hosting a 26 hour x 26 mile marathon x hackathon. Yeah it’s what it sounds like! see thread here